Booking Your First Cam Call

A private cam call is the closest thing to meeting a creator without meeting them. It is live, it is just the two of you, and it happens at a time you both agreed. A little planning makes the difference between a call that feels awkward and one you will want to book again.

Choose the length

Creators usually offer calls of different lengths. A short call is a good first booking, while you find out whether you get on. You can always book longer next time.

Agree what happens

Before the call, tell the creator what you would like. Some calls are relaxed and chatty, some are built around a kink you both agree on, and some are a mix. The creator's listing says what they offer, so read it first.

Cam to cam or watching

Decide whether you want to be on camera too, or only to watch, or only to talk. Say so in advance. There is no right answer, only the one you are comfortable with.

Be ready on time

Test your camera and sound before the call starts, and be there at the time you agreed. The minutes you booked are the creator's time as well as yours.

If something goes wrong

Connections drop and cameras fail. If a call is cut short for a technical reason, message the creator straight afterwards. Most would rather sort it out with you than leave you unhappy.

Browse the creators offering private cam calls, or see sexting and the girlfriend experience if you prefer messages.