Clubs and parties

Anvil Bar

Arizona's only dedicated leather, Levi and fetish bar, located in central Phoenix with a long-running leather community following and nightly themed events.

APEX Arizona Power Exchange

A members BDSM club in Phoenix with two floors of dungeon, weekly parties, classes and munches.

Chute

A 24-hour private men's club and bathhouse in central Phoenix catering specifically to the leather, bear and fetish communities, with a sling room, video lounges and play spaces.

Club Encounters

A long-running (est. 1996), no-membership swingers social club in Phoenix with a dance floor, video lounges, a jacuzzi room and regular themed nights for couples and singles.

Club Joi

The only on-premise lifestyle/swingers club in Los Angeles, a 12,000 sq ft members-only warehouse venue open to couples and single women on Fridays and Saturdays.

Eagle LA

Longtime Silver Lake leather bar with a large outdoor patio, nightly leather/bear-themed programming and an annual Mr Leather Eagle LA contest.

Slammer

Walk-in men's cruise and sex club in Silver Lake with a maze of indoor/outdoor play spaces, a leather bar area, and themed nights.

The Bullet Bar

North Hollywood leather/Levi's dive bar with karaoke, an on-site leather goods shop on weekends, and an annual Mr Bullet Leather competition.

The Threshold Society

Non-profit BDSM/kink club and dungeon space in North Hollywood, operating since 1982, offering free public orientations, classes and members' play parties in seven themed rooms.

San Diego Eagle

A long-standing leather and gear bar in North Park.

Eros

San Francisco's last remaining gay sex club, operating since 1992, now housed in the historic Bulldog Baths building in the Tenderloin with lockers, lounges and play spaces.

Hole in the Wall Saloon

Divey biker-themed gay bar in SoMa with kitschy decor and a leather/rough-edged crowd, a longtime fixture of the neighborhood's alt bar scene.

Lone Star Saloon

Cash-only SoMa bear bar opened in 1989, regarded as the birthplace of the bear movement, hosting regular beer busts and themed parties.

Power Exchange

Long-running Tenderloin sex club (30+ year history) with multiple play spaces catering to couples and mixed crowds; currently on a lease through 2036.

Powerhouse

Anchor gay leather/bear bar of the Folsom Street scene since the 1980s, with drag shows, DJ nights and a no-attitude cruise-bar atmosphere.

SF Eagle

Historic SoMa leather bar (operating since 1981, SF Landmark No. 295), known for its patio, Sunday beer busts and title contests, considered the heart of SF's leather community.

SoCal BDSM Dungeon

A dungeon venue in Orange County hosting play parties, classes and private rentals.

The R.A.C.K. Room

Private membership club near Denver for BDSM, fetishism and shibari, hosting classes, play parties and community events at a dedicated members-only venue.

Denver Eagle

Denver's only dedicated LGBT leather bar, running weekly Leather Night, Bear Night and Underwear Night alongside other kink and fetish-themed evenings.

Denver Sanctuary

Pansexual private social club for the BDSM community in Denver's Baker neighborhood area, running recurring socials, classes and play parties for members.

Tracks Denver

Large Denver LGBT nightclub that runs a recurring monthly Goth/industrial night and hosts periodic fetish balls in its on-site Dungeon room, alongside its main drag and dance programming.

Trade Denver

Self-described gay fetish and kink bar in Denver's Santa Fe corridor, hosting nightly events and annually hosting the Back Alley leather and fetish weekend.

Scarlet Ranch

Upscale private lifestyle club near Denver operating since 2003, hosting regular parties and dining at an on-site restaurant for a broad membership base.

Ramrod

Levi, leather and uniform bar operating since 1994 near Wilton Manors, with a gritty cruise-bar atmosphere, monthly Pig Dances and an on-site leather shop.

Club Kink Jax

A private membership lifestyle club for kink, BDSM and swingers in northeast Florida.

Secrets Hideaway Resort and Spa

A clothing-optional lifestyle resort with a swingers club, nightclub and themed parties.

Deviance Tampa Bay

A 5,000 sq ft kink community hub with a dungeon, classes and regular play parties.

Miami Velvet

Florida's largest on-premise swingers club, a 20,000-square-foot Doral venue with dance floors, lounges, a BYOB bar, and over 15 private playrooms.

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale

An upscale BYOB on-premise lifestyle club in South Florida with a strict dress code.

Eagle Wilton Manors

Berlin-inspired leather bar in the South Florida leather scene, made up of three connected bars including the strict-dress-code CODE Bar for leather and fetish attire.

Atlanta Eagle

Atlanta's premier levi and leather bar, a long-running fixture of the city's kink and cruising scene with a leather shop on site and a welcoming mixed crowd.

The Control Room

Members-only BDSM dungeon in Atlanta offering private themed play rooms, sessions and events for a select membership, with a secure, discreet setup.

The Heretic

Long-running Atlanta dance club with leather-bar roots dating to 1991, an on-site leather shop, and a mixed alt/gay crowd across multiple bars and a large dance floor.

Trapeze Atlanta

Upscale membership lifestyle club for open-minded couples and select singles, with dance floors, lounges, playrooms and BYOB bar service.

Cell Block

A long-running leather/Levi's gay bar in Boystown with a no-dress-code front bar and a strict leather-dress-code back bar on weekend nights.

Chicago Eagle

The revived Chicago Eagle leather bar, reopened in Uptown in spring 2026, with a street-level bar/patio and a multi-bar basement.

Galleria Domain 2 (GD2)

A nonprofit, private-membership kink and BDSM club near Western/North Ave with a 4,000+ sq ft play space, social areas, and a library, open Friday-Sunday nights.

Jackhammer Chicago

A multi-level LGBTQIA+ leather and fetish lounge in Rogers Park with The Rec Room, The Den, and a patio, welcoming denim, leather, rubber, and gear.

LRA (Leather club/dungeon)

Chicago's oldest BDSM leather club and dungeon, a nonprofit pansexual social club with 2,500+ sq ft of play space and regular educational events.

The Chicago Rose Club

A volunteer-run, nonprofit BDSM dungeon and community space in Rogers Park offering education nights, socials, and play weekends for adults 18+.

The Hole Chicago

A basement-level leather, kink, fetish, and BDSM bar in the same Rogers Park building as Jackhammer, run by 2 Bears Tavern Group as a dedicated kink nightlife space.

Touché

Chicago's oldest surviving leather bar, open since 1977, a friendly neighborhood spot with pool, darts, and ties to the Mr. Chicago Leather competition.

The Phoenix Bar

A 24-hour gay bar in the Marigny hosting Eagle gear nights and leather club socials.

Tabu Lifestyle Club

A private on-premise lifestyle club near Baltimore for couples and single women.

The Alley Bar

A veteran, unabashedly queer Downtown Crossing dive bar with a bear-and-leather-centric crowd, pool tables, karaoke, and DJ nights, tucked into an unmarked alley entrance.

Oblige Rope Kink Art Boutique

A rope, kink and art space with a dungeon, classes and play events in Detroit.

The SPOTT

A Saturday-night lifestyle and swingers nightclub in Kansas City with dance floor and lounges.

FlirtsLV

Private members-only lifestyle club for couples and females in a 5,000 sq ft venue roughly 15 minutes south of the Strip, hosting curated parties for a capped crowd.

Green Door

18,000 sq ft on-premise adult social club founded in 1998, billed as the largest sex club in America, with themed rooms and door-entry.

PlayhouseLV

Members-only, application-vetted lifestyle club in a nondescript Las Vegas commercial building a few blocks from the Strip, with DJ, private rooms and no alcohol sales.

Red Rooster

Sin City's longest-running lifestyle/swingers club (opened 1982), a 13,000 sq ft venue with dance floor, indoor pool, hot tub and private rooms.

Sea Mountain Las Vegas

Adults-only nude resort and lifestyle venue a few minutes from the Strip, featuring a dance lounge, nude pools, and couples/women-only entry.

Whispers Las Vegas

Nevada's largest on-premise lifestyle venue for couples and single ladies, billed as Las Vegas' Premier Lifestyle Party.

Caligula

A private, upscale on-premise swingers club in Astoria, Queens, for couples, single women, and select single men, hosting regular themed lifestyle party nights.

Eagle NYC

A long-running Chelsea leather bar known for its rooftop, cruise-friendly dark corners, gear-focused theme nights, and the annual Mr. Eagle NYC leather contest.

East Side Club

New York City's longest-running gay bathhouse and cruise club, operating since 1976, with saunas, steam rooms, lounges, and private rooms.

NSFW Chelsea

A vetted-members play clubhouse in Manhattan hosting weekend PlayDates and rentals.

Rockbar NYC

A rock-and-roll leaning West Village gay bar with an alternative, leather-and-bear-friendly crowd, cheap drinks, and a laid-back cruising atmosphere.

The Diamond Club NYC

An upscale members-only lifestyle/swingers club in Tribeca with themed play areas, private and semi-private rooms, and regular couples and MFM/MFF party nights.

Club Eden Oklahoma City

The Oklahoma City branch of a private 21+ social lounge for couples and singles.

Club Privata

A three-floor downtown Portland lifestyle nightclub (successor to Club Sesso) with a dance floor, multiple bars, a flogging area, and private play rooms, open Thursday-Saturday nights.

Coffin Club

Portland's best-known goth nightclub (formerly Lovecraft Bar), with a Ouija-board dance floor, a coffin photo booth, and DJs spinning darkwave, industrial, and post-punk.

Eagle Portland

Portland's leather and Levi bar since 1983, official home of the Oregon Bears, hosting leather events, uniform parties, and fundraisers.

Sanctuary Club

A Pearl District alternative-lifestyle event space welcoming LGBTQ+, poly, swing, and kink communities, with a dance floor, semi-private curtained areas, and themed kink nights.

The Velvet Rope

Described as Portland's original and largest private on-premise swingers club, with two hot tubs, group and private play rooms, a dance floor, and mandatory first-visit orientation.

DJ's Island

A private lifestyle nightclub in western Pennsylvania with dance floor and BYOB bar.

The Shop Social Lounge (The Body Shop)

A private members social and lifestyle club near Pittsburgh with themed nights and play spaces.

The Pleasure Garden Club

A Philadelphia upscale swingers club open Fridays and Saturdays, 21 and over.

The Korral

A private members on-premise lifestyle club with pool, themed rooms and monthly kink nights.

Bliss Adult Arcade & Theater

A 24-hour adult arcade and theater venue in Dallas with a couples lounge, private preview rooms and screening areas, popular for regular couples nights.

Colette Dallas

An upscale private-membership swingers, polyamory and open-relationship social club in Dallas with a dance floor, DJ, VIP rooms and a dress-coded, valet-parked atmosphere.

The Dallas Eagle

A landmark Dallas leather, Levi and bear community bar with two floors and an outdoor patio, hosting weekly gear nights, beer busts and leather contests.

Club Eden DFW

A private members social lounge for couples and singles in the Dallas-Fort Worth area, 21 and over.

Infliction Hall

A private, membership-based BDSM dungeon in the Dallas-Fort Worth area (Euless) hosting themed play nights, rope and impact groups, and kink socials in a renovated dungeon space.

Colette Houston

An upscale private-membership swingers, polyamory and open-relationship social club in Houston with a full bar, dance floor, DJ, and multi-level lounges.

Desires Houston

An upscale membership-based lifestyle lounge in Houston for swingers and open-minded couples/singles, open Friday-Sunday with a 'no means no' safety policy.

Houston Eyes Wide Shut

A private membership alternative lounge in Houston with playrooms and BDSM furniture.

Numbers Nightclub

A 47-year-running Houston counterculture nightlife landmark hosting recurring goth, industrial, new wave and alternative music nights alongside live shows.

The Night Game Houston

A large private lifestyle club catering to swingers, BDSM and poly guests.

The Pendulum Club (Hempstead)

A woman-owned and operated lifestyle/swingers venue in Houston styled as a 19th-century brothel replica, with multiple play areas for members and select single men.

Xclusiv Lifestyle

An upscale lifestyle venue in north Houston.

Club Eden San Antonio

The San Antonio branch of a private 21+ social lounge for couples and singles.

Bound NYC

CC's Seattle

A Capitol Hill gay bar known for a monthly Fetish Night alongside Funderwear, Furry Friday, and other themed dance nights.

Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC)

A nonprofit sex-positive and kink community founded in 1999, running regular member parties, orientations, and munches out of a consistent Pioneer Square venue.

Cuff Complex

Seattle's premier leather bar since 1993, a Capitol Hill institution with four bars, a large deck, and a home base for local leather and bear community groups.

Kremwerk

A queer-owned Denny Triangle nightclub for underground electronic music and drag, home to the monthly SIN: Dark Dance Fetish Night of darkwave, industrial, and EBM.

SubSpace

A members-only BDSM dungeon and play space serving the greater Seattle kink community, hosting roughly 200 workshops, socials, and play parties per year in Tukwila.

District Eagle

A kink-forward leather speakeasy hidden behind a vending machine on U Street, opened January 2025, with leather-padded walls, cruising nooks, and gear/jockstrap theme nights.

Green Lantern

A longstanding two-floor DC leather-and-cruise bar off Thomas Circle, with a casual street-level bar downstairs and a club-like upstairs, known for monthly leather parties and gear nights.

The Crucible

DC's premier members-only BDSM and swingers play-party space, a nonprofit social club running weekend play parties, rope and skill-share events, and educational nights.

Club Bacchus

Private members club in Dundee covering swinging, kink, trans and admirer evenings and BDSM events, with a sauna.

Penthouse Playrooms

Bitastictuesday @ The Greenhouse

JayDees

Private members club on the Bedfordshire and Cambridgeshire border near St Neots, known for Saturday and themed nights.

The Vanilla Alternative

Members club near the A1 at Tempsford, run from a hotel, with rooms, camping and a shuttle bus alongside the club nights.

Club Love Ltd

A members-only sex-positive and fetish club night held in the old Ash Pits tunnels beside Bristol Temple Meads.

Dare to Swing

The Milf Club

Club Alchemy

Gg's Lounge Club

ClubF

A private members swingers club in Stanley, County Durham, with play rooms, a social bar area and hotel rooms for overnight stays. Guests bring their own alcohol and new members book their first visit by text.

The Attic Experience

Large adult club in Derby with daytime and evening sessions and a hot tub on Friday and Saturday nights.

Celestial Studios

An inclusive fetish club and play space in a converted riverside warehouse, running events, workshops and skill classes.

Club Utopia

Vault72

Alternative bar in Plymouth, LGBTQ+ friendly and kink-leaning, running a weekly Friday swingers social alongside its bar nights.

Swingers Quay

Within Temptation

Members club in central Torquay with a dungeon, pool, sauna and playrooms, running themed nights most weekends.

Secrets

Paradise Health Spa

HU9

Hull swingers club.

Hu9 Club

Bristol Gardens Spa

Spank Brighton

The Menagerie

The Gatehouse

Kage Club

Partners

Established Bury club open Thursday to Sunday, with a sauna, jacuzzi, plunge pool and a bisexual day on Thursdays.

Temptations 2

A private members swingers club and lounge in Eccles with weekly theme nights and social evenings.

Alert! Manchester

Club Locked

A volunteer-run kink and fetish night for men, including trans men, held monthly in the Eagle bar on Bloom Street.

Cupids Swingers Club

Swingers club at Swinton, Greater Manchester.

Decadance

Club just north of Manchester with a regular weekly line-up, open to swingers and nudists.

Cupid's Swingers Club

Adult lifestyle club in Swinton with a licensed bar and a full events calendar of themed nights.

Club Dv8 Kent

Pleasures

Adult club near Maidstone, open Friday and Saturday nights, with an indoor pool, a dungeon area and onsite accommodation.

Avant Garde Blackpool

Club Play

Infusion

Blackpool swingers club.

Infusion Blackpool

Private members lifestyle club in Blackpool, open five days a week, with a heated pool, hot tub and sauna.

Paradise in Blackpool

The No3 Club

Swingers club in Chorley with a licensed bar, an intro night twice a month and its own car park.

Liberty Elite

Chunkymuffins

Swingers club near Boston, Lincolnshire, open Friday and Saturday nights, sauna, jacuzzi and pool.

Club Ignite

Swingers club near Heathrow, previously trading as Abfabs.

Bunkhaus

Central Station and The Underground Club

Comptons

Duke of Wellington

Electrowerkz

Klub Verboten

Le Boudoir

London swingers club around Aldgate East, E1. The exact address is given after booking.

Le Boudoir Club

Members-only ENM club in London near Aldgate East, running around 150 events a year, no membership fee but pre-registration required.

Our Place 4 Fun

London swingers club in the N22 area.

Ourplace4Fun

North London swingers club calling itself London's friendliest, running several named nights a week including Frisky Fridays and Naughty by Nature.

Rio's

She.world

Steel Yard

Sweet Wednesday

The Black Heart

Goth and metal bar tucked behind Camden High Street, live rock/indie/metal upstairs, on-site tattoo parlour.

The Bunker Bar

The Butterfly Club

London swingers club. The address is shared once membership is approved.

The Devonshire Arms

Long-established Camden goth and metal pub, 'The Dev', mock-Tudor front with live bands and DJs playing rock and metal.

The Eagle London

The Lord Clyde

Torture Garden

Europe's largest fetish club, running in London since 1990: dance floors, performance art, fashion shows and a BDSM dungeon. No fixed venue, check their own events page for the current date and location.

Union Club Vauxhall

ZDR Events

Townhouse

Wirral swingers club.

The Annex

Hedonism Ni

Purple Mamba Club

Small members club by Trent Bridge in Nottingham, running themed nights.

CJ's at the Townhouse

The Ecclesia

Route 69 Weston

South West's friendliest adult club, in the heart of Weston-super-Mare, open Friday, Saturday and Sunday plus a Wednesday trial.

ClubZeus Sheffield

A private members-only men's venue with sauna and themed fetish and cruising nights, sharing one membership with its Mansfield sister venue.

Atlantis Club

Hellfire

Swingers club at Sunbury.

The Hellfire Club

Club Shhh Newcastle

Shhh Newcastle

Newcastle swingers club.

Eagle Cardiff

Cardiff basement bar and cruise club with a fetish night programme, open since 2011. Themed nights including leather, and nights for pups and furries.

Chameleons 2

Swingers club in Newport. One of two Chameleons clubs, the other being in Darlaston.

V2v Club

Boltz Club

A gay cruising and nightclub venue in Birmingham's Gay Village with dark rooms and cubicles, hosting a monthly bear and gear night.

Club Hidden Birmingham

A newly opened members club for fetish and open-minded adults just outside Birmingham city centre.

Chameleons

Swingers club in Darlaston. One of two Chameleons clubs, the other being in Newport.

Xtasia

Long-running Midlands private lifestyle club and entertainment venue, with a nightclub, the Flirts bar, spa facilities and an on-site hotel. Membership required, with a straightforward application, and ID needed on a first visit. Runs a regular events calendar.

Pandora

Leeds members club for the lifestyle, in Armley. Day and night sessions with hours that vary, so check their calendar before travelling. Members only.

Quest Swingers Club

Private members club in Leeds, open to couples and singles, with non-member days midweek.

Swindon Swingers

Bada Bar

A libertine meeting bar on the Rhône quays, an easy first step into Lyon's libertine scene.

Le Sun Libertin

One of Europe's largest swingers venues at 2,800 sqm near Place des Terreaux, with sauna, hammam and themed couples/mixed/gang-bang nights through the week.

Le Trou

Longstanding gay cruising bar near Lyon's Croix-Rousse slopes, open daily with cabins and screens across two levels.

Le Sycret

A libertine club in Alsace with a bar, dance floor and a dedicated BDSM room.

113 Avenue

A libertine sauna and club space for mixed evenings near Bordeaux.

La Chaloupe

A Bordeaux libertine club with weekly themed evenings for couples, single women and some single men.

Le Buster

The most cruisy gay bar in central Bordeaux, a two-room industrial-style space run by Preston and Graham.

L'Ôlà Club Libertin (Lola)

A cosy upscale libertine club on the edge of Bordeaux.

Bear's Toulouse

Friendly bears/chubs gay bar in Toulouse running a monthly fetish party (2nd Thursday) with an enforced underwear/jockstrap/fetish-wear dress code that night.

Le Privé Toulouse

A 1,200 sq m libertine club with jacuzzi, sauna and hammam, running nightly themed events.

Red Cruising

Toulouse's cruising club, entered through the Lynx Store sex shop, with projection rooms, backrooms and glory holes, open every day of the year.

Guili's Club

A private libertine club near Nantes, open Thursday to Monday, day and night.

L'Orchidée Noire

A city-centre libertine sauna club in Nantes open daily since 2003.

Le Mineshaft

France's oldest gay leather and hard BDSM club, founded 1967, with slings, a St Andrew's cross and cage across bar, changing-room and basement play levels.

Le Vahine

The largest libertine/swingers club in the Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur region, with balneo/sauna facilities, a nightclub, and a heated outdoor pool in season.

Morgan Club

Naturist gay cruising bar on the French Riviera hosting regular nude and themed nights, with a public safe-sex/harm-reduction partnership programme.

Boxxman

Large gay fetish and sex-shop concept store in Les Halles with a 160 sqm cruising club and private cabins in the basement.

COX

Long-running Marais institution on the main gay strip since 1995, with a legendary terrace, daily happy hour and a masculine, bear/fetish-friendly crowd.

Cupidon Club

Full Metal

150 sqm fetish and cruise bar in the Marais with two backrooms and cabins, running a strict leather/rubber/uniform dress code and themed fetish nights.

L'OverSide

A long-established Paris libertine club with salons and a dance floor, running themed nights.

Le Keller

A historic Paris sex club for men focused on bondage, fist, SM and strict dress codes at themed parties.

Le Mensch

An English-pub-meets-Berlin fetish bar in the Haut Marais with a strict fetish dress code covering leather, rubber, neoprene, uniform and more.

Le Transfert

Les Chandelles

Upscale libertine restaurant and swingers club in the 1st arrondissement, open nightly with different couples/singles/women-only access rules by day.

MASK Permissive Bar

An upscale couples-only permissive bar and libertine club in central Paris with themed evenings and private suites.

Moon City

A libertine sauna club in Pigalle with themed evenings each day of the week.

One Way

Cozy, long-running bear and leather/denim neighbourhood bar just north of the Marais, famous for its ceiling cap collection and basement darkroom.

Secteur X

Marais gay cruise bar with two basement levels for play, a St Andrew's cross, and a different nightly theme running from bears to SM to leather.

Taken Club

Private libertine club on the Île Saint-Louis with themed couples, singles-women and threesome nights in a luxurious lounge setting.

Swingerclub Wildpark

One of Germany's longest-running swingers clubs, established in 1972 in Stuttgart, offering couples and singles an established lifestyle venue with regular opening nights Tuesday through Saturday.

Deutsche Eiche

A historic hub of Munich's gay village since the mid-20th century, combining a hotel, restaurant and bar with an attached men-only bathhouse/sauna complex over four floors.

Klub Bizarre

Ochsengarten

Munich's oldest leather and fetish bar, opened in 1967 in the Glockenbachviertel; a small, no-frills men-only cruise bar for jeans, leather, rubber and uniform fans, with a sling area.

Avarus Berlin

A swingers and wellness club in Berlin Wedding with several weekly opening nights.

Boyberry Berlin

A men-only cruising bar in Schöneberg occupying the space of the legendary Tom's Bar since March 2024, with cruising areas, cabins and a dancefloor added in 2026.

Ficken3000

Insomnia

Insomnia Berlin

A large sex-positive lifestyle club in Tempelhof blending techno-club and swinger-party formats, hosting dance & play, fetish, queer, swinger and tantra nights with dungeon-style play areas.

KitKatClub

New Action

A men-only leather and fetish cruising bar near Nollendorfplatz in Schöneberg, with a darkroom and a dedicated boots room, running under new ownership since 2010.

Snax Club (at Berghain)

Swingeroase Zwiespalt

A long-running swingers club in Berlin Tempelhof offering a buffet on several evenings.

Catonium

Hamburg's largest dedicated BDSM and fetish location at 1,600 sqm, with themed play rooms, a bar and lounge areas, hosting bondage, latex, and BDSM play events with an active events calendar into 2027.

Club Equinoxe

A large swinger and kinky party club in a former cinema in Hamburg, open at weekends.

S.L.U.T. Club Hamburg

A men-only fetish and cruise bar in St. Georg with strict weekly themed dress codes (leather, rubber, skin, uniform, boots, masks) and a darkroom, running since the early 2000s.

Swingertreff Why Not e.V.

An all-inclusive swinger club with a wellness area in Hamburg Bramfeld, with newcomer and theme nights.

Club Emmanuelle

A swinger club in Frankfurt am Main running themed private parties for couples and singles.

Grande Opera

The Frankfurt area's self-described 'home of fetish and BDSM people' since 2005, a large club near Frankfurt in Offenbach with play equipment (crosses, slings, cages) plus dance and cultural events.

Bar Hemmungslos

A swinger and BDSM club and bar on three floors in central Hannover, open every day.

Amadeus

A lively gay bar in Cologne's old town that doubles as the local fetish community's regular meeting spot, hosting Rheinfetisch e.V.'s monthly Stammtisch social every second Wednesday.

Pullermanns

A men-only fetish and cruising bar in Cologne's Altstadt-Süd operating since 1972 under various names, with a mixed fetish crowd and regular themed nights (naked parties, sportswear, etc.).

Turbine11

A men's sauna and cruising club in Düsseldorf, reopened in 2025 after a full renovation under new ownership (RS Rhein Steam GmbH) in the space formerly run as Phoenix Sauna; open 365 days a year.

Club LIFE

A couples-only swinger club in the Münsterland open on Fridays and Saturdays, with an events calendar.

Farell Lounge

A swinger club and erotic disco for couples and singles near Neuss and Düsseldorf.

Absinth an der B8

A swingers club in the Westerwald open on Wednesday daytimes and on Friday and Saturday evenings.

Club Le Coq

A villa-style swinger club with pool, sauna and events, between Alzey and Frankfurt.

BUNKER Das Original (Leder- und Fetischclub Dresden)

The clubhouse of the Dresden leather and fetish club, hosting leather, fetish and cruising theme parties.

Club Rendezvous

Calgary's longest-running private members lifestyle club, offering curated nightlife, themed events and social experiences for open-minded adults.

KNetic Club

Calgary's largest fully licensed lifestyle swingers club, LGBTQ+-owned and inclusive, with a dance floor and upstairs play areas including a St. Andrews Cross and spanking bench.

KNetic Edmonton

Edmonton's private members lifestyle and swingers club, sister venue to Calgary's KNetic Club, with an active events calendar of themed parties.

Rascals Club

A monthly non-sex-on-premises dungeon play party in New Westminster running continuously since 2002, open to all experience levels, genders and orientations, with dungeon equipment and facilitated scenes.

Braven Manor

A Vancouver community resource providing regular events and space for fetish, BDSM, kink and swing activities in a sex-positive environment, accessed via free sign-up.

Vancouver Velvet Club

A private swingers house-party club in Vancouver with weekly classic parties and a monthly bi night.

Club M4 (Ménage à Quatre)

A long-running licensed swingers club in the Greater Toronto Area with a dance floor, lounge and private play areas, operating on a membership model.

The X Club

An upscale lifestyle club near Toronto with a 5,000 sq ft play area, private rooms and a dedicated kink room, catering to couples, single women and pre-screened single men.

NYX Lounge

An upscale on-premise adult lifestyle club near Toronto with two distinct play areas, a dance floor and loft lounge, open Friday and Saturday nights to members.

Obsession Swing Lounge

Ottawa's members-only swinger lounge with a licensed bar, DJ entertainment and late-night dining, welcoming adventurous couples and select singles.

Probe Ottawa

A queer-owned private members lifestyle club in Ottawa's ByWard Market with two floors of social and play spaces, including a suspension frame, accessible and wheelchair-friendly.

Oasis Aqualounge

A clothing-optional, sex-positive adult social club and spa in downtown Toronto with a heated pool, sauna, private play areas and themed events daily, open to the public with tickets.

Club L

A Montreal libertine club in a former credit union building, with membership and booked evenings.

Club Luxuria

A newer libertine/swingers complex in Montreal with a ground-floor dance floor and bar plus an upstairs 'Luxure' play section, open to the public via ticketed entry.

L'Orage

One of Montreal's longest-running libertine clubs, open since 1996, with voyeur-oriented play rooms and a rooftop jacuzzi, operating as a private club.

Tension MTL

A shibari studio and alternative lifestyle space in Montreal's Gay Village, offering drop-in supervised rope practice nights, classes and monthly Soirée Shibari performance events, open to the public.

Swingers Oase

A swingers club in Gelderland running regular theme parties for couples and women.

Swingersclub Ultimate Dream

A swingers and BDSM club in Brabant with a bar, restaurant, dance floor and agenda of themed nights.

Bears Amsterdam

Amsterdam's first dedicated bear bar, opened in May 2025 on the site of the long-running cruise bar The Web, with a social bar area and an on-site playroom.

Club Church

A long-running Amsterdam gay fetish club with a different themed night most days of the week, three cruising floors, a sling, dark rooms and a faux-rococo decor.

Club Paradise

A long-running Amsterdam couples' club with a heated pool, sauna, steam bath, dark rooms and private erotic rooms, open weekend evenings with a regular calendar of themed parties.

Dirty Dicks

One of Amsterdam's oldest gay fetish bar institutions, running since the 1970s, with a two-floor darkroom, slings, cabins and a weekly line-up of themed nights like Fist Factory and Spandex Party.

Eagle Amsterdam

A three-floor leather and fetish landmark on Amsterdam's famous Warmoesstraat, open since 1979, with a dance floor, cruising area and darkroom, plus a year-round calendar of BDSM, pup play and rubber theme nights.

Spijker Bar

Amsterdam's oldest gay divebar, running since 1978, with a pool table, darkroom, weekly Naked Tuesday and drag bingo nights, and a famously attitude-free crowd.

The Cuckoo's Nest

A relaxed Amsterdam gay bar with a large basement darkroom and cruising maze, open daily, popular with a broad mix of locals and visitors.

Parenclub Fun4Two

A luxury couples and swingers club in Moordrecht with weekly themed nights and a members lounge.

Club OQ

A long-running Rotterdam adult club with live dance shows, a VIP lounge, private rooms and a swimming pool, open to the public most nights of the week.

De Speelkelder

A community-run BDSM play space in Rotterdam, described by its operators as being run 'for and by friends,' offering bookable play sessions and workshops.

The Boss (Club Ron)

The Hague's long-standing gay and bi cruise club, running over 35 years, with a bar, lounge, indoor pool and play zone, and a regular schedule of fetish and cruise theme nights.

Club Random

A gay cruising club in Antwerp with darkroom and video lounge, running men-only dress-code events.

Fetish Café

A low-threshold, welcoming meeting place for fetishists and BDSM practitioners in Antwerp, combining a café/bar area with an on-site play dungeon hosting regular themed play parties and workshops.

The Boots

Belgium's largest gay fetish and leather club, operating since 1983 across six floors of bars and play areas in central Antwerp, with a mandatory membership system and strict fetish dress code.

Cocoon Brussels

A multi-level libertine club in Brussels with themed evenings and an all-in formula.

Stammbar

Brussels' longstanding gay cruise and fetish bar in the city centre, running nightly with themed leather, bear, jockstrap and underwear nights and a cruising/dark area.

Machiavelly Salon & Lounge

A vintage-style libertine club with jacuzzi and massage near Brussels, open every evening.

Club Lautrec

An adult entertainment and swingers venue near Brussels Airport, offering a discreet libertine setting for couples, singles and friends with staffed hostess service and a bar/lounge area.

Xen Club

A libertine club in Hainaut with Saturday theme nights and afternoon sessions.

Le 139 Libertin

A lounge-style libertine meeting place near Liège open on Saturday nights.

Phénix Club

A libertine club near Liège with a Monday discovery bar night and dress code.

The Chap's

A men-only leather and fetish bar/sexclub in Liège, ten minutes from Guillemins station, with dress-code fetish parties on weekends and nude-optional afternoons midweek across two equipped rooms.

Evasion Club

A libertine club in Rocourt with a Thursday libertine bar and a Friday club night.

Eden Club Gran Canaria

A swingers club in the Nilo shopping centre in Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria, with two bar areas, a dance floor and play areas. It runs themed nights through the week, including couples and single women nights, a bi night and a gentlemen's night.